Tuesday, July 03, 2007

WHY YOU MUST LEARN TO FORGIVE......


Your ability to forgive those who have hurt you in the past is a crucial stepping stone to your spiritual and emotional growth. Throughout the course of our lives, we collect emotional baggage. This is unavoidable, and even though it can cause us a great deal of pain, it helps us to define who we are as people; the result is, we grow even more and learn valuable lessons along the way about ourselves and others.

So there you have it - emotional baggage is an unavoidable part of all of our lives – but it’s not actually this that is the real cause of unhappiness in your life. What’s really important is how you choose to deal with that baggage, because what you do here will determine the success or failure of your future relationships.

People come into our lives to teach us lessons: It's what you do with these lessons that determines how your future will be. Some relationships or encounters that we have with other people last only a few days, and some last a lifetime. But either way, each experience serves a specific purpose and is extremely relevant to your life!.

Don’t let people who have hurt you in the past have any control over your future: When you make a choice to forgive others, you are NOT lying down and becoming a doormat, nor are you admitting that person who hurt you is in the right. Forgiveness is about taking back control of your life and not allowing your negative emotions to rule you. Hanging on to feelings of resentment, hatred or anger, will ensure that these destructive feelings WILL spill over into your current life and stop you from enjoying positive, successful relationships with other people.

The fact is, your subconscious mind never ignores negative energy and emotions. So there it is; make a decision today to take back your life by practising forgiveness. Your energy is extremely precious so don’t allow yourself to give it away to those who don’t deserve to have it it! Move on with your life today, and you will experience miracles.

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